AN OPEN MYND
This is An Open MYND — MY(NDY's) blog where neuroscience meets real talk, and nobody's asking you to meditate on a mountaintop. I write about the messy, funny, human side of mental fitness and the science behind how you can make your brain work for you, not against you.
Prefer to watch instead of read? Catch me on YouTube at Your Brain, Explained, where I break it all down one episode at a time.
Why Fake Content Feels Wrong: The Psychology of Authenticity
LinkedIn is starting to feel like a room full of robots—and your brain knows it. This post explores the psychology of authenticity, why fake content triggers discomfort, and how mental fitness helps you build real connection, trust, and influence in a world full of noise.
Why Flexible Boundaries Beat Work-Life Balance
Delivering "the performance of your life" at 6:30am on a Tuesday might look like high productivity, but it’s often a sign that our mental fitness is being taxed by a lack of clear boundaries. I’m diving into why we say "yes" when we mean "no," and how shifting from rigid fences to flexible ropes can actually strengthen your focus and well-being.
The Moving Day Survival Guide: How to Brain-Hack Your Way Through Stress
We moved from Philly to South Carolina in seven days during a snowstorm. While pregnant. And we didn't just survive, we thrived. The secret? We treated ourselves like Bernadoodles named Potato. Here is the science of why "Self-Bribery" is actually your best Mental Fitness tool.
Win the Moment: A Better Alternative to New Year’s Resolutions for Mental Fitness
New Year’s resolutions often feel overwhelming and hard to sustain. This post introduces a simpler, more effective approach: “Win the Moment.” By focusing on one small, intentional action at a time, you can reduce pressure, build mental fitness, and create real momentum that lasts beyond January.
Survival Mode vs. Thriving: How to Take Back Control of Your Mind
Your brain is wired to survive, but you’re capable of so much more. This post explores how, even in stressful or uncertain moments, mental fitness helps you consciously choose your emotions, shift your mindset, and move from simply surviving to truly thriving.
Your Brain is Starving and You're Only Feeding It Once a Year…
Gratitude isn’t supposed to be a once-a-year performance, it’s daily brain fuel. Thanks to our built-in negativity bias, one bad moment can outweigh ten good ones, leaving us mentally undernourished if appreciation is scarce. This post makes the case for turning “thank you” into a habit, not a holiday, and shows how small, specific acts of appreciation can rewire your mindset, strengthen relationships, and spark a ripple effect of positivity.
The Secret Formula for The #1 Work Skill: Giving Effective Feedback
Feedback isn’t just a workplace skill—it’s a mental fitness challenge. When our brains treat criticism like a threat, even well-meaning conversations can fail. This post breaks down a simple, science-backed formula to give feedback that reduces defensiveness, builds trust, and drives real growth.
Why Do People Ghost? The Psychology Behind Your Scariest Habit.
Ghosting isn’t just rude—it’s brain science. This post breaks down why we avoid difficult conversations, from fear and shame to cognitive dissonance, and how choosing honesty over silence builds mental fitness, stronger relationships, and real emotional resilience.
I Got Ghosted...What. Why. And How to Move On!
Getting ghosted can feel confusing, frustrating, and personal—but it’s often more about the other person’s brain than your worth. This post breaks down what ghosting really is, why people do it, and how choosing honest communication can build mental fitness, confidence, and stronger relationships.
Old Dogs, Learning New Tricks, and The Magic of Neuroplasticity
Think you’re too old to learn new things? Think again. Thanks to neuroplasticity, your brain can rewire itself at any age. This post breaks down how learning actually works, why it feels harder over time, and how small, consistent actions can build mental fitness and unlock new skills.